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He was just an all around really caring guy, who did nice things for me and bought me flowers and was willing to talk back to my bitchy bullshit (I have my moments).

The sexism, racism and arrogance of many military personnel always upset me, but I tried hard to put that aside and enter the Military relationship with an open mind. I try very hard not to create my opinion solely on my hurt, but I'd be insane not to admit that it must color it slightly. But please, please don't make life-long sacrifices without appreciating that there are other options. He cheats constantly, then makes her think it's her fault. He won't take more than two easy community college classes a semester, and usually ends up failing out of at least one.I dated him for a year before he enlisted, and then for almost two years afterwards. It especially changed the way he treated me, though it didn't happen overnight.Military relationships seem to be overwhelmingly unequal.He went from being my partner, to being a sailor with a girlfriend.When I had a problem, we didn't discuss it as equals, he told me I needed to "be more like the other Navy girlfriends" or "I have the same issues as ____ wife, you should talk to her." What I wanted came second. I had to be okay with the supportive role, and okay making sacrifices because . I should have walked the moment that changed, but I loved him, I was young and I couldn't let go of what I had before.

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